After surveying 1,805 Christians, we discovered the real reason we don’t make time for God—and how to fix it.
Here are 4 deeper reasons behind why Christians struggle to “make time” — and the simple system that’s helped thousands fix it.
When we asked over 1,800 Christians what they struggled with most in their walk with God, two-thirds said their biggest challenge was simply making time.
Whether it showed up as busyness, distraction, or a lack of discipline, nearly every answer pointed back to the same problem: “I want to spend more time with God—but I don’t.”
At a quick glance this made sense. Our internal nods had our team coming to the same conclusion in our walk with the Lord. Of course making time is the biggest struggle.
But as we dug deeper, we realized there was far more beneath the surface - four deeper layers that give a clearer picture to why believers don't spend time with God.
So if “time” is the most common struggle—what’s really going on underneath?
Here's a closer look, based on actual responses, at the four deeper layers that often hide beneath the surface.
“I’m busy. I forget. I’m tired.”
These are the most common struggles—what we say out loud. They’re real, but they only scratch the surface of what’s really going on.
“I don’t plan for it. I don’t prioritize it.”
Underneath the busyness is a lack of rhythm. Without structure or intentionality, even the best intentions fade.
“I’m not sure God will meet me there. It doesn’t feel like it matters.”
At the deepest level, our inconsistency often reveals a hidden belief: that time with God won’t make a difference. That He won’t show up. That we’re on our own.
“I feel guilty. I feel far from God. I keep messing up.”
Our habits are shaped by how we feel. When shame or discouragement creeps in, it becomes harder to approach God with confidence.
Most people stop at the surface.
The vast majority of responses reflected only the symptom—“I’m busy,” “I forget,” “I’m tired.”
But when we looked deeper, we realized it wasn’t that people don’t care about time with God—it’s that many haven’t yet become aware of the deeper roots driving their inconsistency.
And without that awareness, true change is nearly impossible.
Start by asking “why?” questions until you hit the root.
Why don’t I spend time with God?
Why do I keep getting distracted?
Why does this feel hard?
Awareness is the first step toward transformation.
Once you know what’s underneath, make a plan.
Not a perfect one—a realistic one.
One that anticipates resistance and builds in structure, not shame.
You don’t need a huge breakthrough—just a small, consistent step.
Because consistency isn’t the fruit of a big emotional moment. It’s the result of a simple, repeatable system.
After looking through nearly 2,000 reviews, we found something powerful:
When using the Daily Kairos Journal, over 60% of people said they became more consistent in their time with God—the very thing they struggled with most.
In other words, when you pair awareness with a simple, structured system—transformation happens.
Not overnight. But consistently.
And consistency with the Lord is where deep spiritual growth begins.
"Trying to establish a consistent quiet time and prayer life can seem daunting. Failing to be consistent time after time leads to discouragement. Taking small steps to build consistency is a wise move in the right direction and having the Kairos journal to help you take a few minutes out of your day every day is a great tool for establishing a consistent practice."
- Michael
"The Daily Kairos journal has truly transformed my spiritual routine. For the first time, I’ve been able to establish a consistent habit of daily prayer and spending meaningful time in God’s Word."
- Brody
"Trying to establish a consistent quiet time and prayer life can seem daunting. Failing to be consistent time after time leads to discouragement. Taking small steps to build consistency is a wise move in the right direction and having the Kairos journal to help you take a few minutes out of your day every day is a great tool for establishing a consistent practice."
- Michael
"The Daily Kairos journal has truly transformed my spiritual routine. For the first time, I’ve been able to establish a consistent habit of daily prayer and spending meaningful time in God’s Word."
- Brody
"I really like the way this prayer journal was designed. It's just enough to jot down prayers and thoughts and help keep you in a routine, but it's not over the top and doesn't feel unrealistic. My husband and I both want to be reading scripture daily, and my hope with gifting him this and getting one for myself is that it can be a tool to help us stay consistent."
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"Wonderful journal and helped me dive in to be more consistent and focused on what God is doing in my life."
- Andrew